This is a true about a girl and what hppened to her one day in school:
Julia was in 6th grade and had been at her school since kindergarten. Her two best friends were Wendy and Erin. Erin was the most popular girl in the class and all the girls saw her as the leader. One morning Julia arrived at school and Erin was acting weird. When Julia said hi to her, she didn’t respond. She just looked away and smiled at a group of girls in the corner of the classroom.
It didn’t take long for Julia to figure out that Erin had turned most of the girls against her. But, she didn’t know why! She went to Wendy and asked her why Erin was mad at her. Wendy acted nervous and said that all she knew was that Erin told her that if she hung out with Julia, none of the rest of the girls would talk to her anymore.
The rest of that day lasted forever. Whenever the teacher was looking everyone was nice to Julia. But, when her back was to the class, Erin or another girl would throw pieces of paper toward Julia or whisper to each other and look in her direction. Julia thought Wendy would help her but Wendy just pretended nothing was happening.
That night Julia talked to her parents and they told her to wait and see if tomorrow was better. If not, they said, perhaps they could help Julia talk to Erin and work through the problem. Julia felt like that would make her look stupid if everyone found out that her mom and dad had to get involved. She knew that sometimes the class would pick on someone, but she never thought her friends would turn against her and do the same thing to her. She felt like she didn’t have any friends and nobody liked her.
The next day was even worse. No one wanted to hang out with her at recess and she had to sit by herself at lunch. At the end of lunch she went into the girls’ bathroom. While she was there, a girl from her class came in and said that Erin had sent her in and that Julia had to take off her shoes and send them back to Erin or no one would talk to her tomorrow. Julia just wanted to go home. She didn’t want to cry but she was confused and hurt and scared. She gave the girl her shoes.
Now she was late for class and was in the bathroom with no shoes. She headed to class and walked in quietly with her head down. Before she could get to her chair, the teacher asked her why she was late and where her shoes were.
Here was her dilemma. What should she do now? Everyone was watching her. If she told the teacher about Erin and the girls ganging up on her she would look like a snitch, and who knows what the kids would do to her after that. But, if she didn’t say anything or lied to the teacher, she would get into trouble.
I think Julia should have told the teacher and if the kids started to do even worse things to her, she should move to another school. I don’t think Wendy stood up for her because she wanted to be part of the group so she wouldn’t feel left out and unwanted jst like Julia. I don’t thnk this kind of thing has ever happened to me, but it has happened to someone. It might happen to me sometime in my life. I have never been in Wendy’s position before because noone has ever told me to stop talking to any of my friends. I have never been in Erin’s position before because I’m not much of a leader and I have no reason to hate anyone of my friends. If this situation happened to boys instead of girls, I think there would be more violence and bad words. I also think there might be some blood involved. I think people pick on others because they are either jealous of them or they just don’t like their personalities. Other people join in teasing that person an making them feel bad because they don’t want to feel left out and they want to follow whatever anyone else is doing. If I see someone picking on someone else in my class especially if they are my friend, I would tell the person who is picking on my friend to stop it. If they don’t listen, I would give them three more warnings before telling the teacher. It would be easier for me to tell the teacher because I have a lot of friends who have nothing against me (I think) and if the person I told on tried to recruit people to gang up on me, they would not be very successful because 1) they would not find many people and 2) my friends would stick up for me. I have never felt that a good friend has turned their back on me, but if I did I would feel mad and go up to the person and ask them what their problem was. I would also feel guilty, because I would think that I did something to make them do that to me.